Secret to being happy

I know the title is a bit tacky but I think its apt to what I am about to say below.

Life in general keeps kicking our butt all the time. Well at least that's the case for most of the people, unless you are filthy rich and have everything you want. You are usually working under a boss who is never really happy with you no matter how much effort you put in and while going on with the rigmarole of life, our only escape seems to be the world of social media (facebook, instagram, snapchat et all). Everyone does the methodical switching of different apps and scrolling through a few times and repeat it many times in the day only to end up a lot more frustrated than we actually are.

Facebook and for that matter even Instagram now a days has become a place to boast. Everyone seems to be having a better time than you, travelling, buying stuff and eventually they give you a constant feeling of inadequacy. A feeling that nothing interesting is happening in our lives. I've been the culprit and also the victim of this. I've been one of those who constantly posted about anything and everything I did and I have also been the victim of looking at other peoples posts and thinking that nothing interesting is happening in my life. I've had that uneasiness when I didn't get enough likes for my posts and went into useless self analysis about what might've been wrong with my post and all that. I'm sure a lot of people have been through it and must still be going through similar feelings.

Facebook had gone from a place to connect with old friends to a place to boast about anything and everything. I have a little more than a thousand friends on Facebook and if all of them were really "friends" every post I put should've ideally got at-least 500 likes which never really happens. That only means that the other so called friends are just there to snoop around to see what others are upto. It had become a sort of a authorized surveillance app.

I've had that feeling for a really long time and one fine day I had this amazing Eureka moment. I decided to stay away from Facebook for a month. I confess that it was a little difficult at first but as time passed, it became easier. I uninstalled the app from my phone which made it easier to not give into the temptation and over a period of time I noticed that I was much calmer. I stopped having the itch to click a pic of everything and post. Since I'm not looking at what other people are doing, I'm a lot more calm and best of all, my phone battery lasts much longer :) . I also noticed that I am more present in the moment rather than wanting to go live on Facebook or having to put up pics and thinking of fancy titles and hashtags.

Anyways all that aside, its been about 2 years since I've taken my hiatus from Facebook and I do not miss it one bit. I haven't deleted my profile as such but I do use it as a birthday reminder. Thankfully it doesn't need me to login and instead it just sends me a mail. The only social media app I use as of now is Instagram. I like this over other apps because you have the option to follow or unfollow people. You don't really have to unfriend anyone and that I feel is much better. Plus I use it only to promote my photography and Insta is an amazing way to get the reach provided we also use the right hashtags.

So, the gist of the story is this. We are usually unhappy when comparisons come into picture. The comparison between the haves and have nots and also between the pretty and the average. Facebook has inadvertently promoted this comparison which has lead to a lot of dissatisfaction and self loathing. I have kept away from it and I feel I am a much happier person. I don't feel the urge to post anything and neither to I feel bad for not getting a higher number of likes which unfortunately became the new sign of acceptance.

In conclusion, live and enjoy the moments, take pictures and look back on them instead of trying to be physically present and mentally absent. Disconnect to connect!

#Change, #Happiness, #Facebook

New bike dilema

So, I've been driving my Bajaj Pulsar 180 for the past 17 years. 17 years!! Can you imagine that? I am still very happy with my bike and I am never going to let it go. I plan to do a full comprehensive review of it sometime soon, so keep a look out for it.

In any case, 17 years is a long time and I think its high time I got a new bike. Like I said, my pulsar is not going anywhere. Its just not going to be my primary bike anymore that's all. I've been on the lookout for a higher capacity bike since the beginning of this year but 2018 has been such an amazing year for bikes. Almost every month some new amazing has been coming up and that has made deciding on the next bike a practically impossible task.

A lot of people suggested that I take the Royal Enfield Classic 350, but I don't know for some reason I just cannot imagine myself riding an RE bike. My next alternative was the KTM Duke 390, but I read from a lot of youtube and other reviews that it tends to heat up quite a lot and sometimes the engine ceases, so I had to cross that out also. My primary usage will be for daily commutes to office and I want something thats powerful and also a good looker. Another alternative I thought of was the Bajaj Dominar . I personally love this bike. I like the way its designed, I love that its a 400cc and I specially love the full LED headlights but for some reason it just hasnt clicked. The other alternatives I have are the RE Himalayan and now, the newly released RE Interceptor 650.

The Himalayan is known to have a lot of reliability issues so that bike has one foot out the door but the interceptor sure seems promising. I recently went on a test ride and I must say I am very impressed and am almost tempted to go for it. The price is also just about right for a 650 cc and it sort of fits perfectly into my requirement. The only downside is that its way too retro which hardly any digital elements and it looks a lot like my current bike as I mentioned in my previous blog.

I was contemplating on the Ninja 300 but after watching a review by Bulu Biker, I might not actually go for the Ninjas. That kinda makes it slim pickings for me. All I am left with are
1. The RE Interceptor 650
2. 2019 Bajaj Dominar
3. Jawa (cant believe I am even considering this)
4. KTM Duke 390

Royal Enfield Interceptor 650

I had been waiting for the Royal Enfield Interceptor 650 for over a year. I had my eyes on it the moment it was introduced and finally it is here. The announcement was made on a weekday and so I had to wait till the weekend to finally lay my hands on it.

I went to the Royal Enfield Showroom in Himayatnagar and they had both the Continental GT and the Interceptor. Though the orange color interceptor was the most eye catching, the one they had here was gray. I went there after a nice 5k run and was a little skeptical if they would allow me to take it for a test ride considering I was in gym clothes and all sweaty. The executives at the showroom were really nice though they parked the bike inside, they let me take it for a spin.

At first as you can see from the picture on the right, the interceptor looked almost similar to my current bike the first version of the pulsar 180. RE stuck to the classic bike look and so they ended up having the typical round headlight and very simple dials as well. A speedometer on the left with a small digital display which had a fuel indicator and two trip meters and on the right was the tachometer with all the tell-tale lights. Even from the side both bikes looked more or less similar.  (I'm not going into much details because a lot of people have already video reviewed it and all the specs are also available online. I'm just giving a first had impression of the bike).

The scene was completely different as soon as I got on to the bike and I must say I loved it. The handle bar was slightly higher as compared to my bike but it took me hardly few seconds to immediately get adjusted to the Interceptor. One of the major USP of the interceptor is the twin exhaust and the new exhaust note. I must say it was music to the ears when I revved it. It was absolutely throaty and made it clear that there was a beast just waiting to let loose.

What was was incredibly surprising was how smooth it felt. It being a twin cylinder engine generating 47 bhp, was very very smooth. The gears just easily slipped into place and there were absolute no vibrations what so ever. Ive been driving my pulsar for 17 years now. It still is in great condition and doesn't rattle as such but when I push it, I do notice a lot of vibrations around the handle and the foot pegs. I hadn't driven any other bike apart from this so I didn't really have a reference point. The interceptor opened my eyes, the smoothness and the refinement was clearly evident.

It is a 650 cc and strangely it didn't feel as intimidating as I thought it would. I owned a Harley Davidson Iron 883 before and I still remember that I literally shivered when I first felt its power. I didn't have that issue this time but the surge of power was so smooth on this bike that it made me fall in love with it instantly. As soon as I opened the throttle the bike just shot through the streets and almost did a wheelie. The showroom guy behind me must've had his heart in his mouth when I was driving it.

It was a relatively short ride I took but I still could feel the weight of the bike and also the heat it produced. I wonder how hot it might get in the Hyderabad bumper to bumper traffic. Im still not at a stage where I could give a comprehensive review but I will surely test this bike a few more times before finally taking a call on whether to buy it or not.

All in all, it did leave a great first impression and Im really looking forward to familiarizing myself with the bike a little more over the next few days.

Keep watching this space for more.